A funny thing about respect.... it has to be earned not demanded.... and the way one earns respect is by first being .... respectful.
Are we sure all teachers are being respectful of their 'charges' ...or is it a case of ....'do as I say and not as I do'.
Do the teachers respect the child's right to be frustrated at times...or is that seen as a sign of 'disrespect'.
When a child acts in an 'anti-social' way.... do the teachers look further than the behavoir, or do they simply make a judgement... that the child is being disrespectful?
for some reason we seem to think there is one fix for everything that ails children .... "just sit down, shut up, and do as you are told" .... maybe teachers ought to spend more time... listening.... and less time dictating.... maybe it is time that teaching (especially in the elementary and secondary years) became a 'dialogue' rather than a monologue....speak with the children... not 'at' them.



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