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      Default Why do women pick losers?

      Sucessful, smart , beautiful women with complete losers.
      They KNOW he's a loser. They complain incessantly about 'he's done this, he said that'.
      But they never leave! Or if they do, it lasts a couple weeks before they're running back.
      WHY?
      “There is a magnificent, beautiful, wonderful painting in front of you! It is intricate, detailed, a painstaking labor of devotion and love! The colors are like no other, they swim and leap, they trickle and embellish! And yet you choose to fixate your eyes on the small fly which has landed on it! Why do you do such a thing?”
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by Amelia View Post
      Sucessful, smart , beautiful women with complete losers.
      They KNOW he's a loser. They complain incessantly about 'he's done this, he said that'.
      But they never leave! Or if they do, it lasts a couple weeks before they're running back.
      WHY?
      Simple.

      Because she is not as smart, successful, and beautiful as she may think she is or others may tell her.

      REAL SMART women don't end up with losers.

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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Because he is a pretty boy toy that she can flaunt to show that she has a man.
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Becos the losers have the TIME...
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      because they reject every good man that pass through the scene.

      they eh like he job.
      they eh like he religion.
      they eh like how he does look.
      they eh like how he does dress.
      they eh like the fact that he has an opinion.
      they eh like he car.
      they eh like he salary.

      then they realize, but wait nah, how come everybody have a man except me? i successful, smart and beautiful!?

      and along comes a loser.

      and they like it like that.
      i feel so high, like if i could fly...

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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by sylvestter View Post
      because they reject every good man that pass through the scene.

      they eh like he job.
      they eh like he religion.
      they eh like how he does look.
      they eh like how he does dress.
      they eh like the fact that he has an opinion.
      they eh like he car.
      they eh like he salary.

      then they realize, but wait nah, how come everybody have a man except me? i successful, smart and beautiful!?

      and along comes a loser.

      and they like it like that.
      Oh gosh Syl this is so true
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Prolly becos they think the losers adores dem! Comes back to peer pressure as well!
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      the sex is better ...
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      ^ like u was chosen by a really smart woman Poser
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by indie View Post
      ^ like u was chosen by a really smart woman Poser
      she didn't choose me ... i force myself on her

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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by Chicabonita View Post
      Simple.

      Because she is not as smart, successful, and beautiful as she may think she is or others may tell her.

      REAL SMART women don't end up with losers.
      what you know

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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by Amelia View Post
      Sucessful, smart , beautiful women with complete losers.
      They KNOW he's a loser. They complain incessantly about 'he's done this, he said that'.
      But they never leave! Or if they do, it lasts a couple weeks before they're running back.
      WHY?
      You must believe that your love life will work out for the best. That's it. All it takes is a commitment to changing our attitude so that you are feeling so positive about your love life, you end up attracting exactly who you want. Rather than being a trait optimism is a skill that can be learned and developed through practice. Pessimism is learning to reframe so-called negative life experiences so you view them in a positive light. But applying this strategy to your love life is easier said than done, particularly if you had your heart broken repeatedly, or deeply disappointed by a string of dubious dates. Either romanticism or cynicism alone is dangerous. Romantics are easily hurt. Cynics are readily hurtful. But if you can stretch yourself into a deep commitment to the romantic and a firm commitment to the cynical, even if the tension imposes pain and unresolvablility, the resulting state is bittersweet, vivid and true. Searching for perfection is a defence. It allows you to reject others without looking at yourself. You can never be too picky when it comes to finding true love of your life. In fact, you have full permission to stop dating men you do not find interesting or physically attractive or compelling or funny or smart or compatible. A perfect mate would be dull -instead, look for one you can learn from grow wiith. Relationships are not perfect, they are complex and complicated, but I think those kinds of relationships are the most rewarding. What I'm saying is, do not settle for less than you deserve, if you truly want want to have an amazing, crazy, great love in your life, then hold out for it. Do not settle out of fear that you won't find it. Perhaps you have already been in a long relationship, so you know the relationship skills of compromise and negotiation.
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by Flaggs View Post
      Because he is a pretty boy toy that she can flaunt to show that she has a man.
      I agree with this one! And yes, it not possisble that they are smart if they pickin up a loser.

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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      some women to damn picky until they pick or end up with the wuss!
      "None of us has the power to make someone else Love us. But we all have the power to give away Love, to Love other people. And if we do so, we change the kind of person we are, and we change the kind of world we live in"

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      Oh look at me. Is what it is.
      When people stop looking, is when they don't know what else to do.

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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by sylvestter View Post
      because they reject every good man that pass through the scene.

      they eh like he job.
      they eh like he religion.
      they eh like how he does look.
      they eh like how he does dress.
      they eh like the fact that he has an opinion.
      they eh like he car.
      they eh like he salary.

      then they realize, but wait nah, how come everybody have a man except me? i successful, smart and beautiful!?

      and along comes a loser.

      and they like it like that.
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by Chicabonita View Post
      Simple.

      Because she is not as smart, successful, and beautiful as she may think she is or others may tell her.

      REAL SMART women don't end up with losers.
      to follow up on CB here. are you sure the woman in question is that much of a catch herself ?
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by skl View Post
      to follow up on CB here. are you sure the woman in question is that much of a catch herself ?
      point!
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by Amelia View Post
      Sucessful, smart , beautiful women with complete losers.
      They KNOW he's a loser. They complain incessantly about 'he's done this, he said that'.
      But they never leave! Or if they do, it lasts a couple weeks before they're running back.
      WHY?
      Sometimes it's because the loser is the "smart" one in the relationship. She didn't pick him; he picked her.
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      [QUOTE=Chicabonita;296196]Simple.

      Because she is not as smart, successful, and beautiful as she may think she is or others may tell her.

      REAL SMART women don't end up with losers.[/QUOTE]

      interesting comment ... you have a lot to learn about life ...

      whatever a 'loser' is ... i guess we have to determine what a 'loser' is ... i know a Judge who is well educated an well respected ... very bright as you would say .. and very attractive ... that's is right .. a judge in the court of law ... who has this guy from Tobago .. who gets everything from her ... trips ... car .. everything .... buys his clothes at a custom tailor ...

      i wonder who is the loser in this case ... she seems to be happy ...

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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      loser is a relative term. were the people jailed in the Piarco affair losers? Some ah dey was wealthy/successful, ent? Is a gangman/badboy a loser? What about somebody from Laventille, who works as a nurse, raises three children and ent no badjohn?

      Maybe these women don't appreciate that all things have a plus and minus side, ent? Or they have a character flaw and pick bad dates.
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      define loser

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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by Amelia View Post
      Sucessful, smart , beautiful women with complete losers.
      They KNOW he's a loser. They complain incessantly about 'he's done this, he said that'.
      But they never leave! Or if they do, it lasts a couple weeks before they're running back.
      WHY?
      My wife is successful, smart, and beautiful, so you're saying that I'm a loser?
      It's far better to be a dotish anything than a forceripe something.

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      Quote Originally Posted by guyguy View Post
      My wife is successful, smart, and beautiful, so you're saying that I'm a loser?
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      Default Re: Why do women pick losers?

      Quote Originally Posted by Flaggs View Post
      NAhhh, yuh juss use to lose yuh miind when yuh used to be ah moderator...come to find out it was a pre-requisite.
      True ... for some it's a prerequisite, like being a TSA Screener.
      It's far better to be a dotish anything than a forceripe something.

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