how do u feel about your spouse receiving calls from the opp

[dancerboy]

How do u feel about your spouse or significant other receiving calls (at home)from the opposite sex or the same sex if you are so inclined. DANCERBOY

[Solachica]

Personal or work related?

[SSDD]

once that person know not to cross that line there is no problems with it. and know what time to call too i know of ppl where friends be it same sex or opp calling all 10, 11 in the night and their SO is right there ***! set your boundary and enforce them

[vaio]

dont have a problem with it....cld mean that they are friends....once it does not hinder our r/ship...

[dancerboy]

GOOD MORNING TO THE FOLLWING, WHO R SIGNED ON: VAIO, KING B, ALI, SHEPPY, AND BRAG. HAVE A BLESSED DAY. DANCERBOY

[Solachica]

Good morning to you to dancerboy :D

I don't think I wud have a problem with it....as long as it's not late in the nite and as long as when they get the call they ent going in next room to talk :roll:

[vaio]

and to you as well..

[Ali]

mornin mornin :D

[brag]

Good morning and top of the day to you, dancerboy.

[vaio]

may be we shld have a good morning thread.... :|

[Ali]

may be we shld have a good morning thread.... :|


nah vaio..........imagine 1000 pages with good morning's :lol:

[vaio]

^^hehehe...lol

[peanut]

How do u feel about your spouse or significant other receiving calls (at home)from the opposite sex or the same sex if you are so inclined. DANCERBOY

Well Dancer, I have been there, and had it done to me .. and "if" I should ever decide to accept any of the offers I get, unless it is work or family related, I don't want no woman calling my home.

[KFCSpicy]

If my man think that every number that ring on de fone is me having an affair then his behind gots to go.

My house my rules. If u at me for the evening and some man call me I eh go go into another room I will say will meh cookie here so I eh talking long...this is not out of fear but out of respect to cookie. But if I by he and he fone ring and he acting suspicious police go have to intervene in dat cause it go be ORNNNNNNNNNNNNN like boil Corn. :evil:

:lol:

[sheppy]

some people suspicious anyway....

if yuh friends wit girls..or yuh ex does call yuh...or woman does check fuh yuh home...
dat doh mean yuh is a philandering good fuh nuttin cheat...(or it cud mean yuh hiding in plain sight)

cyah have love witout trust...might as well pack up and move on if trust not there....

[dancerboy]

kfc, What if you and the man "shacking up" ? DANCERBOY

[KFCSpicy]

I doh believe in shacking up. wham? dey beat meh wid a man stick ah wah? is 24/7 ah go want him in meh fine looking behind so? Let a heffa breath lil bit nah dancer oh gorm.

:shock:

[lexbarker]

I would say please call more often and take her away.

[orchid]

I donot have a problem with it because i does mostly lime with men because women too damn catty and my boss , and my immediate staff are men so any body i with have to understand.
However, due to the confidential nature of my job some times i have to have conservations in private or in another room .
But if it's a man friend calling then i talking right in front of my man
If he receives a call from a woman and he goes into another room to talk and it not job related then is fight.
Women have a way they call your house late after 9pm and vex if you ask who is speaking.
they have attitude
My house doh mess with me.
Talk to him in the morning and i mean at damn work too :lol:

[Hyena]

Almost all my friends are females.
As such, that's something my girlfriend had to deal with from the get go.

As for her receiving calls from other men, why should I fret?
She has guy friends and in order to organize a small lime or whatever have you, they have to talk right? Or if she feels to vent to someone but I am in class or thousands of miles away in Trinidad (like I will be in December) and not as accessible, then why not call her friends? If they happen to be guys (and some are), so be it.

If you don't have trust, you might as well call it quits early on.

[mammadon]

How do u feel about your spouse or significant other receiving calls (at home)from the opposite sex or the same sex if you are so inclined. DANCERBOY

Depends. Could just be a male workmate or a male friend she has. Doesn't mean the man calling she is she outside man, and she's horning you with him.

[orchid]

Listen you have to be able to trust your significant other.
If their friends cannot understand then please donot call my house.

[SSDD]

I donot have a problem with it because i does mostly lime with men because women too damn catty and my boss , and my immediate staff are men so any body i with have to understand.
However, due to the confidential nature of my job some times i have to have conservations in private or in another room .
But if it's a man friend calling then i talking right in front of my man
If he receives a call from a woman and he goes into another room to talk and it not job related then is fight.
Women have a way they call your house late after 9pm and vex if you ask who is speaking.
they have attitude
My house doh mess with me.
Talk to him in the morning and i mean at damn work too :lol:


and so many people DONOT understand this.

[Flaggs]

I go do like mih padnah Guy Guy...kuss she up den cry an beg she to not go nah gyul...

[Mr Majik]

I have more an issue about people who call and ask for her (or anyone else for that matter) and fail to acknowledge me. I mean, not even a "Hello, how are you? May I please speak with X?"

Some does just call and say, "Is X there?" That does piss me off!

I know that if have reason to call a lady friend and her man answers, I am going to chit chat with him for a moment to put him at ease.
For instance, I might call Sue and the man answers. I will say something like, "Hi, I am Colin, a friend of Sue's. Is this John (or 'Her Husband' if I don't know the name)?
How are you tonight?
I look forward to meeting you soon.
Nice chatting, John. Would you mind if I had a quick word with Sue?"

Now, if a man me eh know call me and say, "Is D there?" I asking him straight up, "Who are you?"

If he asks, "Hi, may I speak with D please?" I'm passing her the phone right away. I'm not even asking who it is calling. She could tell me after, if I can't figure it out from overhearing the convo which SHALL take place within earshot of me!

[SilverEagle]

I've got no problem with this. Generally speaking, if one does it's usually an insecurity issue.

[guyguy]

I go do like mih padnah Guy Guy...kuss she up den cry an beg she to not go nah gyul...Yuh fugget de part wey ah does give she some rell blows fuss?

[guyguy]

Some does just call and say, "Is X there?" That does piss me off!This was the MO of many of my children's friends. I put a stop to that. Whenever I answered the phone and they asked "Is X there?" I'd simply answer, "Yes" and not say another thing. After a long pause, the caller usually got the message and would ask to speak with "X," at which time I'd inform him/her that in future, if he/she ever called and simply asked if "X" was there, I'd hang up the phone without saying a word.

[saltwater]

Yuh fugget de part wey ah does give she some rell blows fuss?
Choopsss, you still hv that fantasy.

[Flaggs]

Choopsss, you still hv that fantasy.


Ah feel he go put she out den beg she to come back after 5 minutes...