are we natuarally attracted to ppl who are not good 4 us?

[dhal]

yuh no how ppl say that? and how ppl must have a "bad ting" at least once?

is that true? if so, it is a phase right? and how soon does it pass if it is in fact a phase? :roll: 8-)

[Scorpio]

Being a "bad ting" myself, I not good for nobody, yet plenty girls does be attracted to me. :D

[Solachica]

I don't think its a phase nuh. I know men and women who still going for the bad ones.

Then again I've seen it happen where the fellers spend a lot of yrs behind the 'bad' girls and time to get married they get the 'good' girls.
This I've noticed after my mother pointed tht out to me. And up to last 2wks I've seen it happen. This feller I know got married right after he broke up with a girl he been with for years.

[vaio]

sometimes we like the excitement of being with ppl who we know are not good for us. or sometimes we just plain stupid to rationalise and realise that these ppl bad for us. :D

[sheppy]

We may have weaknesses for the 'bad tings' out there...and i guess somewhere in the back of our mind we know that they're prolly not the best option...but u know what they say...good guys/girls finish last...

[Mysty]

Why?

Because some people cannot be happy unless they are unhappy.

I have a friend who is a magnet for attracting "scum of the earth" types. No joke! I have come to the conclusion that she cannot have a relationship unless

there is drama, lies, deception and eventually heartache and no amount of advising does help, she just cannot help it!

[vaio]

may be its just for sheer excitement... it might be boring to be with a goody good person..where's the fun in that... :mrgreen:

[Solachica]

:D To settle down eventually they does want the goody goody :lol:

[SSDD]

the excitment and "fun" they have with them is the main attraction. when they realise that fun is not the end all then they go for the good ones

[vaio]

:D To settle down eventually they does want the goody goody :lol:

absolutely... you think they wld want a no good to be father or mother to their children???!! They smarter than that! :D

[KFCSpicy]

I think it's the challenge yuh get from thinking you can tame that person. I always think I could be the one to tame the person. I love a dangerous man...lawd is meh weakness ah shame to admit it. I love talent too but that doh get meh going like a dangerous man.

So all yuh saying bad boys and so called bad girls don't deserve love too then? And if so Why?

I am addictive, so I does warn people from de word go. Is your tail to ketch when yuh tootombey over my fine behind. And for the men ah cyah get... nuff black candle and sweat rice in yuh tail.

Seriously though it eh have no excitement nah dread cause good or bad all man does either like yuh, prefer, rather or need yuh. Rarely would they love you genuinely. This topic has me wondering what really is a bad girl or bad man? Who defines these traits? The neighbours? The 4 ex girl friends or last 2 boyfriends? the area yuh live in? The friends yuh keep or the way yuh treat yuh harem? :roll: