Reasons for breaking up

[Solachica]

Ok so I take serenity suggestion and started this thread.


A couple I know recently broke up becos the guy is ready for marriage and the girl is not. They were together for 2-3 years I think. He's 30 and she's 26.
Personally I think they were great for each other. But seems him wanting to get married caused problems and it ended.

You know it brings a person back to reality and you see tht people don't wait forever.

Anyway, wht are some of the other reasons you broke up or know someone who broke up for?

[syxxi-fux]

I know someone that is actually going through a divorce right now. They've been married for 10 years now and have 1 child. They're getting a divorce because the husband cheating and he not spending anytime with their son. Their son is 10 going on 11 yrs old. The husband drinks a lot. He is a dead-beat dad if you ask me. The little that he does, she can do by herself.... So those are some of the reasons for their breaking up. It's a :cry: and long story, trust me.

[Solachica]

I know cheating does be involved in plenty breakups.

I broke up with a feller becos I thought tht I was putting all the effort into the relationship and he wasn't doing a thing. It got to the point where it felt like if I didn't call him then he wouldn't call me.
Oh well no luv lost there. :lol:

[syxxi-fux]

I also know someone else who is about to breakup. They're breaking up after a few years of marriage. They belong to 2 different planets. He thinks one way and she thinks another way. She verbally insults him because she feel like he should know better when he does most of what he does around the house. He insults her because he's tired of her insulting him.... they keep going in circle. Finance is another factor and when he drinks (becuase of work, family and his personal relationship) he acts like a fool. He talks down to her, backs her up in a corner yelling in her face and holds her down (when she tries to move) so that he can get his 'drunken point' across. Among other reasons. Jealousy being another.

[dancerboy]

Anytime a couple shares the same matrimonial home, but socially, spiritually, and intellectually occupy different rooms, it's time for one of them to leave the house. And do not think about how good the sex is. Because it takes more than four bare legs on a bed to sustain a marriage.

DANCERBOY

[vaio]

1. financial problems and difference in financial wealth
2. unfaithful partner
3. lack of passion in the relationship
4. abusive partner
5. partner who is an addict to alcohol or drugs
6. having no children after being married for years and years
7. differences in spiritual and moral values
8. lies and lies between partners
9. getting together for the wrong reasons eg a rebound relationship
10. different career goals which may affect the other partner

[kemist]

1. financial problems and difference in financial wealth
2. unfaithful partner
3. lack of passion in the relationship
4. abusive partner
5. partner who is an addict to alcohol or drugs
6. having no children after being married for years and years
7. differences in spiritual and moral values
8. lies and lies between partners
9. getting together for the wrong reasons eg a rebound relationship
10. different career goals which may affect the other partner


many of my breakups were due to #9 & #10.
i learnt my lessons and i dont intend to repeat #9. i hope i dont encounter #10 again.

[sylvestter]

what if the wife or gf get fat?

[serenity]

what if the wife or gf get fat?

Why yuh ask that syl? What-she-name threaten to leave yuh? :lol:

[sapodila]

what if the wife or gf get fat?
after yuh fatten de hen now yuh ready to call it roost?!

[sylvestter]

what if the wife or gf get fat?

Why yuh ask that syl? What-she-name threaten to leave yuh? :lol:serious talk - she say i getting too skinny :(

[latany]

umm, eh! is only because ah like making up. It ain't because of any real problem.

[kayt]

For me so far breaking up is because we had different goals and could't acommodate each other's lifestyles fully.

[bluenote492000]

I broke up with a guy because he had absolutely no ambition. Look I didn’t expect him to be the next Bill Gates or anything but when he started talking about:

a. how after I finish my degree how I’d be “minding us” . Then Houston we had a problem.
b. When told me we would be living by his mother after we marry well the problems went to Defcon 4.
c. When I found out he was dealing weed to supplement his construction work salary well the nuclear reaction went off faster than the Spitzer affair.

[lexbarker]

She went to UK and I came to Canada.
After a year we had new partners.

[Solachica]

Knew a feller who break up with he gf becos she didn't have sex with him for a while. :lol:

[SSDD]

1st dude - all of a sudden didn't have time to even call me much less see me. after a few weeks of it i sent a message saying we were done.

2nd dude - wanted sex and when i tell him no he went and had sex with some little girl who then wanted to confront me for her man. that was it.

3rd dude - cheated on me cause he wanted someone with more experience :roll:

4th dude - didn't know the meaning of don't bloody touch me

5th dude - was just too damn shady. i think he had a piece on the side. wanted to call me when he want come see me when he want and then trying to tell me he want sex ***. plus he has a habit where when he come to pick me up sit in the car and blow his horn. i just used to sit down inside till he come and knock on the door like civilized people.

6th dude.... seems to be working out so far we'll see how it goes.

[Dappa]

Imaging after bout 6mths into the relationship....yuh realize the boyyuh wit.......was ah woman.....or the girl yuh wit was ah man........
lmao.........what allyuh go do???
If that happen to me..........that is why i wudda break up wit she....or he....or IT!

[Devil]

I've finished with women for a large number of reasons

- lost interest-- i just did.. its happens like that
- not looking for long term-- a previously married woman (no kids etc) only wanted a non-committal.. this after some years of seeing each other..
- fall out of love - we just hated each other at the end.. now we're good friends, she is married and a couple thousand miles away, i like her better like that!
- being stupid.. some girls start out being smart.. and turn into total idiots over time
- being superstitious and overly religious.. there is only so much i can take.. but preaching religion, pseudo science and superstition to me is a very bad idea- right now i have a girl crying long tears because of this. I'm fiercely atheistic
- bad sex -- nuff said
- low sex drive- some girls could only do it twice a week or less.. that doesnt work for me
- pets- i've finished with girls cos they had cats, dogs and rabbits-- nothing worst that smelling an animal scent on your woman or getting bitten by fleas etc when you go to her place, or leaving with cat hair all over your clothes.. nasty
- poor hygiene.. one hot french women didn't bathe in the morning before going to work, after a night of crazy sex, she'd bathe before sex tho :)
- married-- one woman told me she was married 2 months in

i could go on.. but thats a start :D

[cocoa]

envy
hate
cheat
hypocritical
lie
steal
corrupt