boyfriend problems

[anna555]

i have been with my boyfriend from i was 16 years old and he was 19 years old his always supported me with my education and his always told me to hurry up and pass my exam because he wants me to get my qulifications before me and him get married he always use to wake me up for college now 5years down the line i'm at university and i have almost finish my education but the problem is i have not heared from him for 2years now when we met he just came into this country 3weeks from jamaica he is jamaican indian and he used to live in his brothers girlfriends flat and i used to stay there with him but she started treating him bad and he had to move out even his brother had to leave her and he never had no where to go and had to spend some nights sleeping rough untill him and his friends rented a flat he is now currently illegal in the country but his made no attempt to contact me or see me before he left he told me he does not want to get married to no one else apart from me and that he loves me and as soon as i finish my education me and him can be together but i dont now what to do i dont know if his left me or not can any one guide me along this problem i am really confused and i just need honest advise good bless

[lexbarker]

I hope by the time you get your education you will be able to punctuate.

[Sumana]

I hope by the time you get your education you will be able to punctuate.

And i well thought someone taking a stab at solving the girl problem!!

[dhal]

yea but they soooo funny :D

maybe (since he illegal) he doesnt want to get u involved with him @ the risk of gettin u in trouble too. maybe he want to catch himself b4 he settle dwn with u...or maybe its all jus a load of crap. i think only u can really know that since none of us know him (or you 4 that matter) and your relationship...

but i new @ this so one ah dem more experienced ppl may b able to give yuh sum more insight...

[BW]

I hope by the time you get your education you will be able to punctuate.

ah haff tuh agree with dis fella. de standard ah english here drop bad. It eh good at all.

[lexbarker]

I hope by the time you get your education you will be able to punctuate.

ah haff tuh agree with dis fella. de standard ah english here drop bad. It eh good at all.
Maybe the poor guy coulld not understand the unpunctuated love letters and he was so confused that he could not reply.

[Sumana]

I hope by the time you get your education you will be able to punctuate.

ah haff tuh agree with dis fella. de standard ah english here drop bad. It eh good at all.
Maybe the poor guy coulld not understand the unpunctuated love letters and he was so confused that he could not reply.
that is soo mean!!

[Solachica]

Did I miss something here? Am I the only one who is reading tht she hasn't heard from him in 2yrs?
Girl I wud tell you tht although the past may have been comforting its time to move on with your life and stop reminising abt your teen yrs.
You are a young and educated woman and time to believe in yourself and don't wait around 2yrs more for a man you haven't heard from.

[dhal]

i'll drink to that ^^^

[Solachica]

At 16 you were living with him? While here wht job was he doing at 19?

[SSDD]

i'll have to agree with Solachica. 2 years w/out hearing from him? don't waste your time hun there is better out there

[serenity]

I'd love to try and help u out but like some others, I can barely understand what you're trying to say. If u hadnt heard from him in 2 years then its pretty clear that the relationship is over. Have u made attempts to contact him or his family members in these past 2 years? And u hold out for this man all these years, even though there was no communication? This ting sounding like an Indian movie yes!

[Falcon]

:|

frosties, I apologise, you are now second.

[Scorpio]

i am really confused


I more confused than you after reading that unpunctuated post.

[Sumana]

i have been with my boyfriend from i was 16 years old and he was 19 years old his always supported me with my education and his always told me to hurry up and pass my exam because he wants me to get my qulifications before me and him get married he always use to wake me up for college now 5years down the line i'm at university and i have almost finish my education but the problem is i have not heared from him for 2years now when we met he just came into this country 3weeks from jamaica he is jamaican indian and he used to live in his brothers girlfriends flat and i used to stay there with him but she started treating him bad and he had to move out even his brother had to leave her and he never had no where to go and had to spend some nights sleeping rough untill him and his friends rented a flat he is now currently illegal in the country but his made no attempt to contact me or see me before he left he told me he does not want to get married to no one else apart from me and that he loves me and as soon as i finish my education me and him can be together but i dont now what to do i dont know if his left me or not can any one guide me along this problem i am really confused and i just need honest advise good bless


OH JEEZ ALLYUH:

I have been with my bf since I was 16 years old, and he was 19 years old. He has always supported me with my education and always told me to pass my exams o that I can get my qualifications before we get married. When I was in college, he'd be the one to always wake me up! However, now 5 years down the line, I'm at university and I've almost finished my education. The problem is however, that I have not heard from him in 2 years. When we initially met, he had just moved to Trinidad from Jamaica (He is an Indo-Jamaican) and he used to live in his brother's girlfriend's flat. I used to stay there with him but because some problems arose, he had to move out. His brother also broke up with the girl. This left him with no where to go, and he spent many rough nights until his friend rented a flat to him.
I should ad that he is illegally living in Trinidad.
The point is that,, h e has made no attempt to contact me or see me, but before he left, he told me that he wanted to get married to only me and loves only me. He wanted me to finish my education before we get married. I don't know what to do now: whether he has left me or not. Can anyone help me with this problem?



Help her now na...!!

[serenity]

Thanks dey Sumana.
Girl, I eh want to judge eh, but where your parents?
My advice from the previous post remains the same.

[Scorpio]

OH JEEZ ALLYUH:

I have been with my bf since I was 16 years old, and he was 19 years old. He has always supported me with my education and always told me to pass my exams o that I can get my qualifications before we get married. When I was in college, he'd be the one to always wake me up! However, now 5 years down the line, I'm at university and I've almost finished my education. The problem is however, that I have not heard from him in 2 years. When we initially met, he had just moved to Trinidad from Jamaica (He is an Indo-Jamaican) and he used to live in his brother's girlfriend's flat. I used to stay there with him but because some problems arose, he had to move out. His brother also broke up with the girl. This left him with no where to go, and he spent many rough nights until his friend rented a flat to him.
I should ad that he is illegally living in Trinidad. :shock:
The point is that,, h e has made no attempt to contact me or see me, but before he left, he told me that he wanted to get married to only me and loves only me. He wanted me to finish my education before we get married. I don't know what to do now: whether he has left me or not. Can anyone help me with this problem?



Help her now na...!!


Nice job with the punctuation there Sumana...

She say she has been with her bf since she was 16, and then, in the same paragraph she says she hasn't heard from him in 2 years.

Maybe it's just me, but I wouldn't say i "with somebody" if I ent see or hear from them for 2 years.... and allyuh realise she still calling de man her bf too ? :shock:

[Sumana]

Thanks dey Sumana.
Girl, I eh want to judge eh, but where your parents?
My advice from the previous post remains the same.

My thought too

[sheppy]

Sola..u are not alone...de first ting i see is dat she eh see him in 2 years....but i had to read the post over about 3 times as i kept running out of mental breath due to lack of punctuation... :lol:

allyuh mean eh!...jeez

firstly Anna...if a man tell yuh he want to marrid yuh...an 5 years down the road u eh get an update on that in d last 2 years...yuh might wanna read between the lines...

[dhal]

oh gorm allyuh funny :D

she eh come back since? an she was so lookin 4 help? steups

[Scorpio]

she eh come back since? an she was so lookin 4 help? steups

Maybe she took Lexbarker's advice and went to learn how to punctuate. ;)

[shotta]

wELLL.... I think he have ah outside iLLegal ting.. jus my 2 cents <3

[cocoa]

I think yuh should track him down and make sure he's ALIVE!!

[kayt]

This guy likes being minded. Others catering for his accomodation and what is he doing for himself? She's studying to get a good job just to mind him. It this story has any truth to it, take note, he's gone it's been 2 years since last contact, move on woman.

[vaio]

hey chic, i agree with most of the folks in here... you've not heard from this guy in 2yrs.. chances are, he's moved on and so should you...am sure this may have been the guy of your dreams... but i am sure that you can find somone else out there who will treat you just as special or even better...

[lexbarker]

i have been with my boyfriend from i was 16 years old and he was 19 years old his always supported me with my education and his always told me to hurry up and pass my exam because he wants me to get my qulifications before me and him get married he always use to wake me up for college now 5years down the line i'm at university and i have almost finish my education but the problem is i have not heared from him for 2years now when we met he just came into this country 3weeks from jamaica he is jamaican indian and he used to live in his brothers girlfriends flat and i used to stay there with him but she started treating him bad and he had to move out even his brother had to leave her and he never had no where to go and had to spend some nights sleeping rough untill him and his friends rented a flat he is now currently illegal in the country but his made no attempt to contact me or see me before he left he told me he does not want to get married to no one else apart from me and that he loves me and as soon as i finish my education me and him can be together but i dont now what to do i dont know if his left me or not can any one guide me along this problem i am really confused and i just need honest advise good bless


OH JEEZ ALLYUH:

I have been with my bf since I was 16 years old, and he was 19 years old. He has always supported me with my education and always told me to pass my exams o that I can get my qualifications before we get married. When I was in college, he'd be the one to always wake me up! However, now 5 years down the line, I'm at university and I've almost finished my education. The problem is however, that I have not heard from him in 2 years. When we initially met, he had just moved to Trinidad from Jamaica (He is an Indo-Jamaican) and he used to live in his brother's girlfriend's flat. I used to stay there with him but because some problems arose, he had to move out. His brother also broke up with the girl. This left him with no where to go, and he spent many rough nights until his friend rented a flat to him.
I should ad that he is illegally living in Trinidad.
The point is that,, h e has made no attempt to contact me or see me, but before he left, he told me that he wanted to get married to only me and loves only me. He wanted me to finish my education before we get married. I don't know what to do now: whether he has left me or not. Can anyone help me with this problem?



Help her now na...!!
Sumana, yuh good yes. She should get the message that after 2 years with no type of contact, she should move on. Even if she meets him again this is no guy to spend the rest of your life with. He has already shown his character.

[Sumana]

I felt sorry for her - love is a ****ty thing :(

[lexbarker]

I felt sorry for her - love is a !@#$ thing :(
Welcome to reality. We will all experience it a few times in our life. With each time we become stronger.

[KFCSpicy]

It eh have no peegyleeks dat sweet...sorry but Sumana your so called love was green and naive to say the least you are lingering over a promise broken a million times over by some dodgy dude. Sigh move on girl, the one good thing this man seemed to do for u as far as I can see is motivate yuh towards yuh education some more and leave yuh alone.

Move on hun u deserve someone who will have your back on all costs.

Too many rubbish fish in de sea but you will find yuh guppy soon...be patient and focus on yourself first and foremost. When you are running RBTT or whatever yuh choose to do then yuh go look back on all of this and steupse.

[Solachica]

aye KFC it wasn't Sumana asking for the advice eh. :?

[Falcon]

ah so shame for this lady.

[Sumana]

It eh have no peegyleeks dat sweet...sorry but Sumana your so called love was green and naive to say the least you are lingering over a promise broken a million times over by some dodgy dude. Sigh move on girl, the one good thing this man seemed to do for u as far as I can see is motivate yuh towards yuh education some more and leave yuh alone.

Move on hun u deserve someone who will have your back on all costs.

Too many rubbish fish in de sea but you will find yuh guppy soon...be patient and focus on yourself first and foremost. When you are running RBTT or whatever yuh choose to do then yuh go look back on all of this and steupse.

wayyyyyyyyy not me - that girl..!!

[KFCSpicy]

aye KFC it wasn't Sumana asking for the advice eh. :?
Me eh really care once the message was read and taken een.

[Scorpio]

It eh have no peegyleeks dat sweet....

....K, that says a lot about de standard of peegleeks yuh accoustom to. :lol: :roll: :D

[KFCSpicy]

Which means nothing. I cud reallllllllll get the best (according to me and them) and still that eh go make me so dohtish dread. :twisted:

[Scorpio]

Which means nothing. I cud reallllllllll get the best (according to me and them) and still that eh go make me so dohtish dread. :twisted:


K, I feel de peegleeks this girl get was better than de best yes, dais de only explanation . :D

[KFCSpicy]

nah man...she whipped by the promise of peegyleeks dread...it eh have no super-peegyleeks ah tall to make yuh do dem shiola...unless yuh blonde and from mississipi or yuh name Eudrice and yuh cyah get ah man.

After the first 3 weeks of not seeing he or hearing from he it would have been bon voyage to he tail... she realllllllll good to wait so long and still on a forum asking for answers. Steupseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. :evil:

[Scorpio]

Aye allyuh realise like we scare away this girl, poor thing never post nutten again after this experience. I wonder if she solve she problem with the fella and if she learn to punctuate. :D

[saltwater]

She was traumatized by her boyfriend problems and came for some help and all ya start making fun of she problem adding more trauma the the 22 yr old. I hope she gone home to she mammy for some comfort yes.

[KFCSpicy]

steupse^^^tuff! NEXTTTTTTTTTTTTT! :shock:

[vaio]

i hope nobody else comes and post they troubles nah....they might just run away... :mrgreen:

[Scorpio]

^^Vaio, like I better keep my toubles to myself yes....

[vaio]

can you really!!!????? :P

[Scorpio]

^^^ Yeah yuh right, ah just can't help it, ah kinda glad dey start over de forum, and all dem threads ah started on de other one gone.... :D

[vaio]

^^ too bad i was not on the old forum....i would have known a lot more eh?

[Scorpio]

^^ nutten yuh need tuh know about, Vaio... :lol:

[vaio]

^^hmmm......well you live in a bad soap opera so i'm sure i find out a lot..... :D

[KFCSpicy]

Vaio ah watching yuh eh... :geek: :evil:

[Scorpio]

Good one Vaio.... :lol:

[vaio]

Vaio ah watching yuh eh... :geek: :evil:


ok K....hope yuh watchin good eh

[KFCSpicy]

and she rude toooo :shock:

[Scorpio]

catfight !!!! :twisted:

[KFCSpicy]

nah black mail dread

[Scorpio]

Well yes, look how we turn this poor girl's thread about her bf problems into a catfighting and blackmailing session nah. :D

[KFCSpicy]

not WE is YOUUUUUU

soon as u come back is drama :roll:

[Scorpio]

aye, doh blame me for allyuh bacchanal, nah, I outta dat... :D

[sapodila]

^^ nutten yuh need tuh know about, Vaio... :lol:
Ha ha ha ha ha! yuh good yes Boi!

[vaio]

K..scorps creatin trouble....drop him... :|

[sapodila]

alyuh run de gyul away. All alyuh had to tell de gyul was....... after two years?.........MOVE ON!

[Scorpio]

So is ah Bash (innocent) Scorpio thread now ?? :|

[KFCSpicy]

innocent and scorpio is not synonymous.

and iz your fault.

[Scorpio]

^^^ Yes dear :roll: :roll:

(dem marrid men and dem does tell meh that "yes dear" is usually the best answer in cases like this when nookie for de night may be in jeapordy)

[KFCSpicy]

darn skippee :D

[Scorpio]

Sometimes late at night when ah cant sleep ah does really wonder what became of this punctuation challenged girl yuh know.... :?

[KFCSpicy]

lmaoooooooooo

you needs a woman like me to tire yuh out mentally and physically and financiallythen u go sleep ;)

[Scorpio]

^^^ :D

..but what allyuh really think happen to this chick ?

[vaio]

^^^ :lol: :lol: :lol:

this poor girl must have regretted she came in here..... :P

[Scorpio]

We really didn't help her...but I think she was beyond help anyway :D

[KFCSpicy]

Scorps, I feel is a guy named Annand did write de post. :D What woman so tootumbey over man dread? We eh running about chopping nobody up then killing we self. :roll:

[vaio]

^^K why you feel so....is you or wha????

[Scorpio]

^^^ :shock: :shock: :shock:

[KFCSpicy]

lmaoooooooooooo
haul yuh un-wukkable tail eh Vi...

Scorps why u on this thread u have bf problems ah wah?

[vaio]

^^^ :lol: :lol: i hope for his sake he doesn't :?

[KFCSpicy]

I wondering bout he and dis Dimples now eh :(

[vaio]

^^^ :shock: :shock:

[Scorpio]

I just showing some genuine concern for my fellow forumite in need of help :roll:

[KFCSpicy]

steupse :roll:

[Scorpio]

:D :) :D

[Scorpio]

ok, ok, the truth is, I just wanted her to post again so I couldhave some more fun with her punctuation challenges :D

[vaio]

^^^ naughty boy....no presents for christmas....... :twisted:

[Scorpio]

^^ all I want fro xmas is for this chick to post another long unpunctated post.... :mrgreen:

[KFCSpicy]

dais all u want? becareful what u ask for eh!

[Scorpio]

LOL !!! :D

[vaio]

peeps.........don't put yuh troubles here...... :?

[Scorpio]

^^ .....or Vaio will make you sorry you did. :evil:

[vaio]

hey, i was not the one who drove away ms no-punctuation....was you guys.... :x

[Scorpio]

YOu didn't welcome her either. :twisted:

[vaio]

i jus told her to move on.... :oops:

[Scorpio]

..and move on she did, right off the forum, forever, poor thing.... :mrgreen:

[vaio]

allyuh not good nah!!

[Scorpio]

look who talking, de person who made Miss Punctuation Challenged "move on" permanently from the forum. :roll:

[KFCSpicy]

she is ah hater who work shy Scorps.

[Scorpio]

^^^K, ah ent see she online today, yuh think she move on too ? :D

[KFCSpicy]

lmao nah she on fake sick leave. Dat chile eh hah no shame dreaddddddddd. :(

[Scorpio]

4 real :D

[vaio]

look who talking, de person who made Miss Punctuation Challenged "move on" permanently from the forum. :roll:

i tryin to figure how to make you "move on"......... :twisted:

[vaio]

^^^K, ah ent see she online today, yuh think she move on too ? :D

you wish...........i am back until i take a couple of days next week..........

[KFCSpicy]

:o :o more leave? but what de jail is dis? :shock:

[vaio]

well...i work hard on TTOL so i does be tired.....it ain't easy keepin up wid allyuh nah...

[KFCSpicy]

:shock: no s h a m e

[vaio]

http://www.clicksmilies.com/s1106/waffen/violent-smiley-035.gif

[Scorpio]

^^^K, ah ent see she online today, yuh think she move on too ? :D

you wish...........i am back until i take a couple of days next week..........


but wait nuh you does be on leave more than you does be on de wuk ???

[vaio]

haul yuh....i doh take much leave :mrgreen:

[Solachica]

:?
for the past couple of years I been leaving back my leave days. So I lost out on them.
Not anymore :twisted:
I have compensation day to take to. :twisted:

[vaio]

i intend to take all 14 days s/leave and 5 days casual..... :twisted:

[Scorpio]

:?
I have compensation day to take to. :twisted:

I wonder who will compensate the gov't for all yuh ttol time ??? :roll:

[vaio]

^^^ :roll:

[Scorpio]

^^^and yours too, Vaio come to think of it :shock:

[vaio]

i wuk realllll hard to earn my money....so you ain't know what you talkin 'bout..... :roll:

[Scorpio]

^^ spamming ttol is hard work. :D

[Solachica]

Me ent have a desk job.I ent even have a desk to say thts my workspace. I does just go siddong anywhere available.
I have meh 14 days SL. If I have casual it does come outta my VL.
Vaio how come u have 5CL? I know daily paids get the SL and the CL.

[Scorpio]

Sola, look how you on de woman boyfriend problem thread and you talking about yuh Sl and VL :shock: ...yuh ent shame ??? :o

[vaio]

@ scorps....you ent know 'bout shame, so don't talk....

@ sola....i am a contract woker....you know make some big money fast, collect gratuity then leave...... :D

[Scorpio]

Cathy's "how do you know if your husband is cheating on you" thread reminded me of this classic one, I wonder if she ever solved her problem.

[travelbug]

Umm, so many years in school and this chick can't spell? Concentrate on school and leave the boyfriend alone! That's your problem right there.

[Eden]

i have been with my boyfriend from i was 16 years old and he was 19 years old his always supported me with my education and his always told me to hurry up and pass my exam because he wants me to get my qulifications before me and him get married he always use to wake me up for college now 5years down the line i'm at university and i have almost finish my education but the problem is i have not heared from him for 2years now when we met he just came into this country 3weeks from jamaica he is jamaican indian and he used to live in his brothers girlfriends flat and i used to stay there with him but she started treating him bad and he had to move out even his brother had to leave her and he never had no where to go and had to spend some nights sleeping rough untill him and his friends rented a flat he is now currently illegal in the country but his made no attempt to contact me or see me before he left he told me he does not want to get married to no one else apart from me and that he loves me and as soon as i finish my education me and him can be together but i dont now what to do i dont know if his left me or not can any one guide me along this problem i am really confused and i just need honest advise good bless


where are you two now?

[Scorpio]

^^ Hopefully in punctuation school.

[Eden]

Question, do you always use proper grammar and or punctuations when chatting online? Why is everyone getting on her for that, hopefully she does not correspond like that when not online.

[sylvestter]

Question, do you always use proper grammar and or punctuations when chatting online? Why is everyone getting on her for that, hopefully she does not correspond like that when not online.i don't. but i tend to separate my sentences and thoughs so it's at least understandable (i hope).

when something is a jumbled mess i just don't bother to read it.

[Eden]

Question, do you always use proper grammar and or punctuations when chatting online? Why is everyone getting on her for that, hopefully she does not correspond like that when not online.i don't. but i tend to separate my sentences and thoughs so it's at least understandable (i hope).

when something is a jumbled mess i just don't bother to read it.

Truth be told, I didn't read it all the way through because of that very same reason, I sent it to 2 g/f to read for me :lol:

[Scorpio]

Question, do you always use proper grammar and or punctuations when chatting online? Why is everyone getting on her for that, hopefully she does not correspond like that when not online.


oh, come on Eden ! Its one thing to neglect to cross a "t", dot an "i", or leave out the odd comma or fullstop, but that piece by anna was ridiculously wrong.

[Harry Williamn]

I have a question for you folks:

When you see a man or a woman you like is it about being a spouse of that person for the rest of your life or

is about just getting what you can get now and moving on to the next victim ?

Does the thought of true love and loyalty ever enter your thoughts or is it a "using' the person game ?

Just asking!

[Ali]

I have a question for you folks:

When you see a man or a woman you like is it about being a spouse of that person for the rest of your life or

is about just getting what you can get now and moving on to the next victim ?

Does the tought of true love and loyalty ever enter your thoughts or is it a "using' the person game ?

Just asking!

the former ;)

[lexbarker]

I have a question for you folks:

When you see a man or a woman you like is it about being a spouse of that person for the rest of your life or

is about just getting what you can get now and moving on to the next victim ?

Does the tought of true love and loyalty ever enter your thoughts or is it a "using' the person game ?

Just asking!
If the shoe fits keep on trying it.

[Scorpio]

I have a question for you folks:

When you see a man or a woman you like is it about being a spouse of that person for the rest of your life or

is about just getting what you can get now and moving on to the next victim ?

Does the tought of true love and loyalty ever enter your thoughts or is it a "using' the person game ?

Just asking!

the former ;)

:D Well yes, Ali .... :D I hope yuh score some points dey breds. :D

[Harry Williamn]

It is with disgust I read some answers because I always thought that when a Gentleman meets a Lady his

thoughts and actions and words were always hounourable but then as john Mccain felt it was "okay" to just

commit adultery with Cindy Mccain and then just "dump" the wife carol Mccain because she was injured in an

accident so also some of you folks thing that a woman is just a piece of "meat' to eat and then discard the

bones?

Ever wonder where the heartlessness in Criminals in TNT began?

[Ali]

I have a question for you folks:

When you see a man or a woman you like is it about being a spouse of that person for the rest of your life or

is about just getting what you can get now and moving on to the next victim ?

Does the tought of true love and loyalty ever enter your thoughts or is it a "using' the person game ?

Just asking!

the former ;)

:D Well yes, Ali .... :D I hope yuh score some points dey breds. :D

tanks :roll:

[lexbarker]

It is with disgust I read some answers because I always thought that when a Gentleman meets a Lady his

thoughts and actions and words were always hounourable but then as john Mccain felt it was "okay" to just

commit adultery with Cindy Mccain and then just "dump" the wife carol Mccain because she was injured in an

accident so also some of you folks thing that a woman is just a piece of "meat' to eat and then discard the

bones?

Ever wonder where the heartlessness in Criminals in TNT began?
Stop grumbling. You were "Just asking."
You look more Catholic than the Pope.

[shotta]

kick him out! lol

[trinidadobserved]

I hope by the time you get your education you will be able to punctuate.Just brilliant.