why do people cheat

[sacky]

on their socalled loved ones.

[dhal]

see "is horning inveitable" thread...

[sheppy]

:lol: d board even have 20 thred..u reposting already...

*sigh*

IBTL in t- 5

[sacky]

and you still on here sheppy.

[KFCSpicy]

lol....horning being inevitable and the question why do people cheat are not both the same. They maybe derived out of the need to understand further but Sheppy give Sacky a break nah.

Why not cheat? Let he rass rock so wid he rubbish ideas of what a proper relationship is dread...(oops am I speaking out loud??) Cheating is just me exercising my rights to do something selfish. Most times we cheat cause we rather not lose what we already have but we still want to sample just in case nah.

Who really can complicate this answer is worthy to see.

[sapodila]

on their socalled loved ones.
"socalled loved ones" yuh say. Then is that cheating?

Anyways! Some of allyuh men does drive them women to do just that. Do protect your woman and stand up in she defence....then yuh wouldn't have to worry about two things growing out of your head called horns. All women are not the same.

[KFCSpicy]

it takes more than a man standing up for me and putting me first for me not to cheat on him.... but seeing as I am like MAdonna...a virgin...I have no comment on de cheating on a puhsuhnal level eh? ;) But as a friend once tell me...If she man doh have a combination of all things then he ace is grass. :roll:

[Scorpio]

it takes more than a man standing up for me and putting me first for me not to cheat on him.... but seeing as I am like MAdonna...a virgin...I have no comment on de cheating on a puhsuhnal level eh? ;) But as a friend once tell me...If she man doh have a combination of all things then he ace is grass. :roll:

:shock: :shock: will I ever get used to these shock posts from you, K ?

[KFCSpicy]

Wah? steupse....I man cyah quote other people ah wah?

I think I am short attentioned spanned when it comes to men. If one cannont hold me via a good convo, make me laugh, have my back and stand at my side and step to the front when I need you then your yuh getting a F on yuh relationship report card with me. Worst yet if de pee pee not sweet....lawd yuh dead by me. That is why I does have 3 and 4 hundred extra male friends on de side just in case husband to be playing de rass...and that is just me.

Most men just greedy and have no reason or rationale behind their whoring. I mean even men create religions that say they can have a hundred wives but women can't have a hundred or so husbands. Who this really pleasing? Me? Ah doh think so on all fronts. :geek:

[lexbarker]

Why do people cheat? Simple, because easy sex is readily available and he/she think that they can get away with it. Would you go knowing that you would be caught?

[KFCSpicy]

i am faithful to all my menz dem :?

[Scorpio]

^^^ dais like de boy who doubltfully asked he girlfriend, "ent I was de one who take yuh virginity" to which she indignantly responded "why allyuh fellas does always ask me that question "

[KFCSpicy]

^^^^^^^^ :D :lol: lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

At least she was forthright wid she answer...

[sheppy]

^^^ I tink dat was from a movie....eidder wedding crashers or s'thin else...but still funny :lol:

[letric]

Presuming you mean sexaully, because he is more interested in sex, as compared with a relationship.

[letric]

If anyone has read Ayn Rand here is is a quote from her comment on the 'Psychology of Pleasure' a bit convoluted but it does bear some logic

The sexual act has a different meaning for the person who is fed by pride and admiration, to whom the pleasurable self-experience it affords is an end in itself - and for the person who seeks in sex the proof of masculinity (or femininity), or the amelioration of despair, or a defense against anxiety, or an escape from boredom. Paradoxically, it is the so-called pleasure-chasers - the men who seemingly live for nothing but the sensation of the moment, who are psychologically incapable of enjoying pleasure as an end in itself.

[letric]

With the rampage of social diseases doubt if there is so much cheating now?

[dancerboy]

If anyone has read Ayn Rand here is is a quote from her comment on the 'Psychology of Pleasure' a bit convoluted but it does bear some logic

The sexual act has a different meaning for the person who is fed by pride and admiration, to whom the pleasurable self-experience it affords is an end in itself - and for the person who seeks in sex the proof of masculinity (or femininity), or the amelioration of despair, or a defense against anxiety, or an escape from boredom. Paradoxically, it is the so-called pleasure-chasers - the men who seemingly live for nothing but the sensation of the moment, who are psychologically incapable of enjoying pleasure as an end in itself.

LETRIC my friend, now i understand your post. The above passage was very elucidating, and illuminating.

DANCERBOY

[Scorpio]

ok, why allyuh bring back this old thread for ? I almost thought KFC Spicy had returned, anyway ...

...sometimes, ppl get complacent in a relationship and start taking it for granted - that is one thing that leads to cheating.

[mammadon]

on their socalled loved ones.

- they don't respect/love their SO
- cheating is in their nature
- they aren't trustworthy
- they don't believe in monogamy

I'm there are lots of other reasons too.

[bigzack]

Why do people cheat?

Ask this fella if you pass him by Tysons Corner in Northern Virginia.

He was there yesterday, and he will be there for this entire week.

This was his punishment from his wife.

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[Falcon]

if her nagging was the reason he cheated then by doing this he gong back to square 1.

what a dope.

[bigzack]

if her nagging was the reason he cheated then by doing this he gong back to square 1.

what a dope.

This is America Falcs.

He goh write ah book.

He and he wife goh appear on all them talk shows.

Then ah setta American sketels goh write him all kinda love letters.

[ebony02]

Generallly speaking, men cheat because they can. Women cheat because of neglect. Now before I get flamed and sign my own death warrant, hear me out. Its my opinion that in this day and age men have no reason to be faithful to one woman when they are countless willing to give their right arm for a man witho no strings attached. Ultimately, a man has many options, while women do not. By options I am not speaking about sex but relationships. There are far more women willing to commit than men. Generally speaking a woman will do whatever necessary to please her man without asking or expecting much in return. But when Mr. Johnny Come Lately starts compllimenting a woman while her husband is too busy watching sports, and Mr. Johnny shows wifey the meaning of romance while hubby prefers to buy the latest tool set than 12 dozen roses just because, a woman gets to thinking...and acting on her desires. Why? Because of neglect. Sex is emotional for us. It isn't as serious for most men.

[bigzack]

But when Mr. Johnny Come Lately starts compllimenting a woman while her husband is too busy watching sports, and Mr. Johnny shows wifey the meaning of romance while hubby prefers to buy the latest tool set than 12 dozen roses just because, a woman gets to thinking...and acting on her desires.

If the horner man name is Johnny Come Lately and the husband name is Johnny Come Too Early, whey yuh expeck?

[sacky]

Generallly speaking, men cheat because they can. Women cheat because of neglect.
well i say,i treat amelia real good in and out of bed and she goes and wants some thing different,=neglect :roll: :roll: :roll:

[dancerboy]

But when Mr. Johnny Come Lately starts compllimenting a woman while her husband is too busy watching sports, and Mr. Johnny shows wifey the meaning of romance while hubby prefers to buy the latest tool set than 12 dozen roses just because, a woman gets to thinking...and acting on her desires.

If the horner man name is Johnny Come Lately and the husband name is Johnny Come Too Early, whey yuh expeck?
Why do yuh always have to put yuhself in people bachanal. Who torking bout comig too early.

DANCERBOY

[letric]

It has been said
because men are predators. Or governed by their libido!